Sunday, September 27, 2009
Did I Say I Was a Swinger? Maybe I am more of a Mock Swinger.....
Jake cautioned me last night about the blog. He said that we're probably not the dictionary version of swingers. So, I wanted to put out a clarification blog to let you all know (if you didn't already guess), we are just a step beyond bystanders in the Lifestyle. We are so intrigued. Yet, something is keeping us from jumping in the pool and swimming underwater with our eyes wide open.....Does this make sense to anyone else?
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Yes. Clearly. Make it a long discovery process. Let the brains fight with the libidos. That creates tension and heat. All good.
ReplyDeleteThe brains & libido are in constant battle. Why is it so hard to choose a side?
ReplyDeleteIt's hard because it's worthwhile. Too-easy choices really don't allow you to work either sides very much. In my opinion, I guess. Talk to me again when I agonize over those two. :-)
ReplyDeleteI've just found this blog, and I too, am conflicted. Am I being a bad girl because I get excited reading this? My husband says it will be good for our relationship..we will grow together.....I feel so confused...
ReplyDeleteNo, you're not bad. You're human. I can't say your husband is right or wrong. You are both being honest. It's when you start hiding your feelings from each other that causes problems. Only the two of you know how far you can push the limits of your marriage. My only advice is to understand the mistakes you will make in this pursuit, you will make together. Forgiveness is key. You've shared too much with your husband to hold a grudge. Figure out together what is for you. Be sexy! Have a blast! Keep your secrets together!
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